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		<title>Article by Sheena Iyengar&#8217;s friend</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[http://sheenaiyengar.com/all/very-interesting-article-by-my-friend/ While we are far from understanding how we choose to act from moment to moment, we do have a general idea. We choose from a set of things we knowhow to do and do the one we choose. &#8230;. We might even consider what we might do next – which is, in itself, something [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1206&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>&#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221; vs &#8220;Huh?&#8221;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[If It Feels Right &#8211; David Brooks During the summer of 2008,&#8230; in-depth interviews with 230 young adults from across America. Smith and company asked about the young people’s moral lives, and the results are depressing. It’s not so much that these young Americans are living lives of sin and debauchery, at least no more [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1143&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>The uncertainty of memory</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 03 Dec 2011 02:59:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Certainty of Memory Has Its Day in Court Witness testimony has been the gold standard of the criminal justice system, revered in courtrooms and crime dramas as the evidence that clinches a case. Yet scientists have long cautioned that the brain is not a filing cabinet, storing memories in a way that they can [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1201&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability and connection (2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 03:53:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This talk has remained powerful for me since I came across it some weeks ago: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html connection is why we’re here. It’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives. Regarding connection, you are better able to connect if you are okay with not connecting or connecting in some specific, preferred, conditional way. You&#8217;re not [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1184&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability and connection</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 03:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This talk has remained powerful for me since I came across it some weeks ago: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html connection is why we&#8217;re here. It&#8217;s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives. As George Ledyard has brought up numerous times, a lot of people are attracted to aikido around the ideas of harmonizing and doing something without [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1182&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability and shame (3)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 02:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The shame and fear of disconnection that is discussed in the talk, I believe, is also closely related to a fear and aversion to further insult and injury. Shame is social but also something more &#8220;existential&#8221; &#8211; perhaps this is about one&#8217;s internal or internalized sense of identity and values. It can feel potentially permanent [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1179&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability and shame (2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 01:36:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of course &#8220;shame&#8221; is a social thing. It can be associated with people actually standing around, and it can be internalized. One of the ways that Endo sensei seems to address this is when he talks about &#8220;trying hard&#8221; and &#8220;doing one&#8217;s best&#8221;. These phrases have positive connotations, but when enacted mindlessly, they can be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1177&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Vulnerability and shame</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 01:00:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This talk has remained powerful for me since I came across it some weeks ago: http://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability.html &#8230;. And shame is really easily understood as the fear of disconnection. Is there something about me that, if other people know it or see it, that I won&#8217;t be worthy of connection. &#8230; What underpinned this shame, this [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1174&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Article: “Aikido and Independence: On Not Finding One’s True Master,” by Peter Goldsbury</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 16 Sep 2011 03:10:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The striking differences between teachers and teaching methods leads to another set of questions, especially for Western practitioners of the art: what role should the teacher play in one’s “aikido life?” Is it best for an aikido practitioner to have one teacher only, or several simultaneously, or a succession of teachers, and in the latter [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1125&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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		<title>Successful types</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2011 23:27:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got my medals, in part, because I did brave acts, but also, in part, because the kids liked me and they spent time writing better eyewitness accounts than they would have written if they hadn&#8217;t liked me. I was thinking, recently, how &#8220;success&#8221; comes in this world to those who are more extroverted. Of [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=da2el.wordpress.com&amp;blog=477831&amp;post=1116&amp;subd=da2el&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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